Your Spouse Isn’t the Enemy: How to Fight for Your Marriage Together

Have you ever felt like your marriage was under attack? You might be right—but the real enemy isn’t your spouse.

In this powerful episode, Pastors Ken and Tabatha Claytor share their raw journey from nearly divorcing two years into marriage to now thriving for over 26 years. They reveal how spiritual warfare—not miscommunication alone—was the true force threatening to destroy their covenant.

🔥 Discover the 6 main tactics the enemy uses against marriages:

Division through distraction

Bitterness & unforgiveness

Sexual temptation

Spiritual disconnection

Miscommunication

Generational patterns

Ken and Tabatha open up about their struggles with anger, resentment, depression, and communication breakdowns—and how a perspective shift (“It’s not me against you, it’s us against the devil”) turned their marriage from battlefield to partnership.

Whether you’re newlyweds navigating your first years or seasoned partners facing recurring conflicts, this episode will equip you with spiritual insight and practical strategies to fight the real enemy and strengthen your relationship.

👉 Don’t just survive marriage—learn how to stand united, fight spiritually, and thrive together.

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