{"id":454,"date":"2025-11-16T08:10:57","date_gmt":"2025-11-16T08:10:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/imbreackthrough.com\/marriageandrelationships\/?p=454"},"modified":"2025-11-16T08:10:57","modified_gmt":"2025-11-16T08:10:57","slug":"your-spouse-isnt-the-enemy-how-to-fight-for-your-marriage-together","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/imbreackthrough.com\/marriageandrelationships\/?p=454","title":{"rendered":"Your Spouse Isn\u2019t the Enemy: How to Fight for Your Marriage Together"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"480\" height=\"270\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Q57GV_jwJD8\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Have you ever felt like your marriage was under attack? You might be right\u2014but the real enemy isn\u2019t your spouse.<\/p>\n<p>In this powerful episode, Pastors Ken and Tabatha Claytor share their raw journey from nearly divorcing two years into marriage to now thriving for over 26 years. 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